I’m going to begin by telling you about Miss Frost. While I say to everyone that I became a writer because I read a certain novel by Charles Dickens at the formative age of fifteen, the truth is I was younger than that when I first met Miss Frost and imagined having sex with her, and this moment of my sexual awakening also marked the fitful birth of my imagination. We are formed by what we desire. In less than a minute of excited, secretive longing, I desired to become a writer and to have sex with Miss Frost — not necessarily in that order.
Karen Washington, a social studies teacher at Watertown High School in Massachusetts, sent us this message in response to Monday's story about a group of girls who were expelled for talking on Facebook about killing several peers and a teacher. Ms. Washington used the story as the foundation for a classroom discussion. She describes what her students had to say.
We had a great response to today's conversation about this year's crop of college graduates. Check out this collection of responses from viewers, who called, texted, and posted advice for those facing the job market for the first time.
What better way to start the weekend than with the iconic '80s alternative/punk band The Replacements. Today we heard "Kiss Me on the Bus."
Here is the rest of the playlist:
Vitamin String Quartet – Dissident
The Who – Pinball Wizard
R.E.M. – Leave
The Replacements – Kiss me On the Bus
Bonobo – Sleepy Seven
Broken Social Scene – Romance to the Grave
Budos Band – Monkey See Monkey Go
Gil Scott Heron – Almost Lost Detroit
Leos Janacek – String Quarter Number 2
After we aired the segment "Lonely in a Digital Age" on Wednesday, we got lots of responses from listeners. Many agreed with our guest, Sherry Turkle, who argued that our digital-saturated society has sacrificed conversation in favor of connection. However, we also heard from those who believe that digital innovations have allowed them to communicate in ways previously impossible.
Lauren Howie is a 26-year-old leasing consultant in Atlanta, Georgia. She has a speech impediment, and she told us how technology has helped her communicate.
The Danger Assessment was created by Jacquelyn Campbell, Professor at Johns Hopkins University School of Nursing. The Assessment is a screen that helps police, advocates, judges and others determine the likelihood that an abuser will murder his or her partner.
Jacquelyn C. Campbell, Ph.D., R.N. Copyright, 2003; www.dangerassessment.com
Several risk factors have been associated with increased risk of homicides (murders) of women and men in violent relationships. We cannot predict what will happen in your case, but we would like you to be aware of the danger of homicide in situations of abuse and for you to see how many of the risk factors apply to your situation.
Using the calendar, please mark the approximate dates during the past year when you were abused by your partner or ex partner. Write on that date how bad the incident was according to the following scale:
1. Slapping, pushing; no injuries and/or lasting pain
2. Punching, kicking; bruises, cuts, and/or continuing pain
3. "Beating up"; severe contusions, burns, broken bones
4. Threat to use weapon; head injury, internal injury, permanent injury
5. Use of weapon; wounds from weapon
(If any of the descriptions for the higher number apply, use the higher number.)
Mark Yes or No for each of the following. ("He" refers to your husband, partner, ex-husband, ex- partner, or whoever is currently physically hurting you.)
___1. Has the physical violence increased in severity or frequency over the past year?
___2. Does he own a gun?
___3. Have you left him after living together during the past year? 3a. (If have never lived with him, check here___)
___4. Is he unemployed?
___5. Has he ever used a weapon against you or threatened you with a lethal weapon? (If yes, was the weapon a gun?____)
___6. Does he threaten to kill you?
___7. Has he avoided being arrested for domestic violence?
___8. Do you have a child that is not his?
___9. Has he ever forced you to have sex when you did not wish to do so?
___10. Does he ever try to choke you?
___11. Does he use illegal drugs? By drugs, I mean "uppers" or amphetamines, “meth”, speed, angel dust, cocaine, "crack", street drugs or ___mixtures.
___12. Is he an alcoholic or problem drinker?
___13. Does he control most or all of your daily activities? For instance: does he tell you who you can be friends with, when you can see your family, how much money you can use, or when you can take the car? (If he tries, but you do not let him, check here: ____)
___14. Is he violently and constantly jealous of you? (For instance, does he say "If I can't have you, no one can.")
___15. Have you ever been beaten by him while you were pregnant? (If you have never been pregnant by him, check here: ____)
___16. Has he ever threatened or tried to commit suicide?
___17. Does he threaten to harm your children?
___18. Do you believe he is capable of killing you?
___19. Does he follow or spy on you, leave threatening notes or messages, destroy your property, or call you when you don’t want him to?
___20. Have you ever threatened or tried to commit suicide?
____ Total "Yes" Answers
Thank you. Please talk to your nurse, advocate or counselor about what the Danger Assessment means in terms of your situation.
Were it not for the subway, New York as it is today would not exist. At a crucial time in the city's history, the engineers of this ingenious subterranean railroad cleared the streets of impossible congestion and decanted the population of the teeming, insalubrious tenements of the Lower EastSide to the farthest corners of the boroughs. Because it was able to move so many people so quickly, the subway became the ultimate urban density amplifier, allowing the apartment buildings and office towers of Manhattan to be built side-by-side, and turning a 26-square-mile island of gneiss, marble, and schist into one of the world's greatest metropolises, where millions could live and trade services, goods, and ideas swiftly and efficiently.
The fact is that income inequality is real; it’s been rising for more than twenty-five years. —President George W. Bush, January 2007
During the past thirty-three years the difference in America between being rich and being middle class became much more pronounced. People with high incomes consumed an ever-larger share of the nation’s total income, while people in the middle saw their share shrink. For most of this time the phenomenon attracted little attention from the general public and the press because it occurred in increments over one third of a century. During the previous five decades—from the early 1930s through most of the 1970s—the precise opposite had occurred. The share of the nation’s income that went to the wealthy had either shrunk or remained stable. At the first signs, during the early 1980s, that this was no longer happening, economists figured they were witnessing a fluke, an inexplicable but temporary phenomenon, or perhaps an artifact of faulty statistics. But they weren’t. A democratization of incomes that Americans had long taken for granted as a happy fact of modern life was reversing itself. Eventually it was the steady growth in income in equality that Americans took for granted. The divergent fortunes of the rich and the middle class became such a fact of everyday life that people seldom noticed it, except perhaps to observe now and then with a shrug that life was unfair.
Today's track list features Ian Dury and The Blockheads, which were active from 1977 until Dury's death in 2000. Now they're simply known as The Blockheads. The video above, from BBC Four, shows Dury and the Blockheads performing one of their best-known songs, What a Waste. It doesn't have a date, but it looks to be circa 1978.
Resistencia Suburbana – Taxman
Junior Parker – Taxman
Soulive – Taxman
R.E.M. – Laughing
Tool – Reflection
Umphrey’s McGee – Pequod
Patrick O’Hearn – So Flows the Current
The Blockheads – What a Waste
Caribou – Jamelia
Him – Universal Peoples
Talkdemonic – Starry Dynamo
Trey Anastastio Band – Sidewalks of San Francisco
David A. Arnott – Brown Baby
Beastie Boys – Multilateral Nuclear Disarmament
Pinback – Soaked
Caribou – Great Canadian Weekend
Malko Malko – Silks
Mercury Program – Arrived/Departed
The Brutalist School – Like Powder
Paco De Lucia – Chanela
Bruce Hornsby – Song B
Scenic – Skylight
Ugress – Hovercraft Expedition
Bambi Molesters – The Kiss Off
Aphex Twin – Hexagons
Dalek – Tarnished
Nicolas Jarr – Too Many Kids Finding Rain in the Dust
Isis – Dulcinea
Here are the top 10 most relaxing tunes:
1. Marconi Union - Weightless
2. Airstream - Electra
3. DJ Shah - Mellomaniac (Chill Out Mix)
4. Enya - Watermark
5. Coldplay - Strawberry Swing
6. Barcelona - Please Don't Go
7. All Saints - Pure Shores
8. Adele – Someone Like You
9. Mozart - Canzonetta Sull'aria
10. Cafe Del Mar - We Can Fly
Your take: What music keeps you calm? Comment here or go to our Facebook page to join the conversation.
Luscious Jackson, featured in the video above, broke up in 2000 to spend more time with their families. They've since reunited, and you can listen to one of their new tracks here. In other bumper music news, today's show featured Empirical Evidence, by Wounded Buffalo Theory. The Takeaway's director, is the drummer (and then some) for Wounded Buffalo Theory.
Bob Mould – Sunspots
Garaj Majal – Of a Simple Mind
The Disco Biscuits – Aceetobee
Luscious Jackson – Naked Eye
Django Rhinehart – Stormy Weather
Four Tet – Plastic People
Paul Weller – Steam
Widespread Panic – Raise the Roof
Wounded Buffalo Theory – Empirical Evidence
The Bad Plus – Human Behavior
Dalek – Tarnished
Papercuts – Do What You Will
Lusine – Operation Costs
Broken Social Scene – 7/4 Shoreline
Last Thursday, President Obama signed the Jumpstart Our Business Startups Act, or JOBS Act, which included many policies intended to help small and emerging businesses grow into larger, more successful companies.
A lot of good stuff here, including the video of Devo above. There's actually an entire YouTube channel devoted to Devo videos, aptly titled DEVOvision. But I digress, because the geek in me just loves Tom Lehrer singing The Elements, which you may have heard on today's show.
The Philadelphia Experiment – Ain’t it the Truth
Cloud Cult – We Made Up Your Mind For You
SISE – Beyond Outside
Arcade Fire – Keep the Car Running
The Donnas – Drive My Car
Moe – Macintyre Range
David Bowie – Bring me the Disco King
Boards of Canada – Kid for Today
Malko Malko – Isopod
Beats Antique – There Ya Go
Crystal Method – London
Devo – Freedom of Choice
Don Cherry – Malkauns
Tom Lehrer – The Elements
Tortoise – The Equator
Bonobo – Days to Come
Underworld – Twist
Black Uhuru – Happiness
Soul Asylum – Misery
Calexico – El Gatillo
The Samual Jackson 5 – Eye Eat Lotus
Charles Bradley – No Time For Dreaming
Mr. Scruff – Get a Move On
Igor Stravinksy – Rite of Spring
The Ventures – Pipeline
Blind Melon – Three is a Magic Number
Light Asylum – End of Days
Beirut – In the Mausoluem
Liquid Tension Experiment – Osmosis
Andrew Bird – Anonanimal
Minus The Bear – The Game Need Me
In his newest book, Rebuild the Dream, green economy pioneer Van Jones reflects on his journey from grassroots outsider to White House insider, shares intimate details of his time in government, and provides a blueprint to reinvent the American Dream. Along the way, he contrasts the structure and rhetoric of the 2008 Obama campaign, the Tea Party movement and Occupy Wall Street. Below are his thoughts on cheap patriots versus deep patriots, and the way forward to reclaim, reinvent, and renew the American Dream. You can order the book here.
Today's guest host, Anna Sale, picked the last song on this list: Mushrooms and Roses by Janelle Monae. Anna said it's something she’s been listening to lately. What have you been listening to lately? Let us know in the comments and we'll do our best to include it as bumper music!
J Dilla – So Far to Go
Leonard Cohen – Democracy
Soulive – Revolution
Al Green – Happiness
R.E.M. – Shiny Happy People
Rhianna – Happy
Phish – Joy
Gregory Issacs – Happiness
String Tribute to Elliot Smith – Happiness
Rockwell – Somebody’s Watching Me
Broken Social Scene – Shoreline
From Monuments to Masses – Conclusions
Madness – Our House
The Roots – You Got Me
Brothers Past – Bitches and Candy
Bon Iver – Come Talk to Me
Janelle Monae – Mushrooms and Roses