The Real Sex Surrogate Behind 'The Sessions' Tells All

Friday, October 26, 2012

The new film “The Sessions” is based on the real experiences and writings of Mark O’Brien, a severely disabled survivor of childhood polio who cannot move his body, but has full sensation in it.

In his late thirties, O’Brien (played by Oscar nominee John Hawkes) decides he doesn’t want to die a virgin, and so seeks out the assistance of a sex surrogacy therapist (played by Oscar winner Helen Hunt).

The real sex surrogate who Mark saw, Cheryl Cohen Greene, was a consultant on “The Sessions.” She shares the story behind the film, explains her profession, and discusses the unique challenges of working sexually with people who have disabilities.

"I thought he was extremely brave," Greene says. "He told me he felt like he was looking through a window and everybody on the other side was having a feast that he would never get to taste."

Part of what Greene appreciated so much about this movie is that it underscores the fact that sexuality is a part of life, regardless of physical differences or disabilities. "I believe that the general public thinks of them as asexual," she says of people with physical disabilities. But she thinks sexuality is "an integral part of who we are as human beings." 

And as for the sexual dysfunctions that her clients deal with? "I think everyone of us has sexual dysfunctions," she says. 

"My hope is always — and that's the goal — that my clients will transfer what they've done with me into a relationship," Greene says. "That was my major concern: How is he going to do this? But I also felt that he deserved to learn all of this like everyone does." 

As it turns out, Mark was able to transfer what he had learned into a relationship. Greene says her work is always geared toward preparing her clients to have healthy, honest relationships.  

"It's a wonderful process, and so many people have wild judgments about it," Greene says. "My goal is, to help them see the judgments, and then really hear what I have to say, and understand more about how to be happy in their own sex life."

Guests:

Cheryl Cohen Greene

Produced by:

Kristen Meinzer

Comments [6]

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Jan. 19 2013 05:38 AM
Rebecca Torosian from New York City

Hello!

I'm joining the discussion as a former sex surrogate in New York City. I completely relate and concur with the author's perspective and experience in helping men overcome sexual dysfunction and in the process reclaim their lives. My article "I was a sex surrogate" was published last night at www.salon.com and my hope is that the dialogue continues, expands and penetrates the hard shell of our outdated cultural perspective on the subject

Nov. 01 2012 04:06 PM
oscar from ny

Creepy

Oct. 26 2012 03:06 PM
oscar from ny

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Oct. 26 2012 03:05 PM
Larry Fisher from Brooklyn, N.Y.

I also don't fake it and I can prove it.

Oct. 26 2012 01:51 PM
KR from New York CIty

Great interview, John. Ms Greene seems quite wonderful, and your questions to her were very helpful.

Oct. 26 2012 09:15 AM

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